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Jed McKenna

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About you
« on: September 06, 2014, 01:22:26 am »
Let me suggest this... we are only (you and I) doing this for you, for what you might get out of our interaction. Whilst others may read your post, and my responses, that is up to them and what they get is what they get. Their business is none of your business. I call this constructive selfishness. 

You are never writing for them, only a private sharing between you and I. Please don't make any suggestions that you think will benefit others. I don't care about others and neither should you. If you are in other's business you are not in yours and hence no one is minding the store. (stor-y). And please don't post links.

Once you have reached a level of understanding that is truly H/A or T/R, you are permitted by me (the Forum Nazi) to go out and do whatever you choose in an effort to change whatever you want, but until then, you will only be creating additional chaos, not called for and I can tell you you don't have the requisite tools.

Thanks for your understanding, and I am very impressed at the level of intelligence, communication and sincerity. I  know it's pretty difficult at times and I applaud your courage and persistence.

Love ya, Jed.

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Re: About you
« Reply #1 on: September 06, 2014, 08:48:34 am »
Hi Ching:

Don't worry too much about my ranting. I do it now and then. All I want you to write about it you, just your experiences and journey. I want you to ask questions also. But only ones that you genuinely want an answer for.

I am not big on the social media thing. It's just a digitized ego that is going to backfire one day. Hence I am sensitive to this forum becoming a place of exchange between members. Just talk to 'me' and I will talk to 'you' and perhaps we will both learn something in the process.

Love ya, Jed.

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Re: About you
« Reply #2 on: September 07, 2014, 03:51:06 am »
Hello, this is my first time on a forum so bare with me. Its taken me 20mins to figure out how to register and log on, so now I'm exhausted and I've gone over my limit of how long I can remain sitting in front of my computer!

I've read the first 2 of Jed's books and I'm waiting for the 3rd to arrive. Enjoyed them thoroughly.
I've come to the realization today, and this realization could change tomorrow, that I'm not trying to awaken; as Jed says awakening is inevitable. What I seem to be doing is processing the processs - if thats possible. Its actually quite fun when I do it. Watching myself delve into pissedoffidness, spite, anger, fear, love, sincerity, pity. It can actually be fun - kinda like watching soap operas and talking to the characters on screen to help them see the whole picture.

Anyway, why am I writing, I'd like to read about those going through the process who have kids, a relationship that works, etc. In Jed's books the 3 women going through the process are all single, kidless and pretty much secure in the world. I know that it won't change the outcome, but as the outcome for the moment is not the most interesting thing for me I'd love to hear from those of you who are or who have been through the process all the while maintaining relationships with other beings.