Dear P;
Sorry, but clearing up confusion was not in my job description. I am actually in the job of creating more confusion.
I want my students to become so incredibly, over-the-top confused that they realize nothing is knowable... period... with one exception (that Truth Is)... and from that point of pinnacle-like confusion, I invite my students to give up... TOTALLY give up.. all their illusion, the dreams, their stories, their wants and not-wants, their accomplishments and their failures... it all boils down to give up their burdens, etc.
Either jumping or falling off the mountain of frustration and confusion into the peace that passes all understanding is next. Whether one jumps or falls doesn't matter because by the time they summit that mountain, they will realize they have no say in the matter, ''it'' will be doing ''them''...
Embrace your confusion, welcome it, even invite more... it will only lead you along if you allow it to... and then... poof!
Love ya, Jed.