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getitgotit

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #15 on: September 25, 2017, 06:09:32 am »
Life calls for a change, otherwise it will stay serious. The change that is called for might be called breakup but?  ??? Serious as in not moving, stagnant, unlively, judgemental BUT the - positive - so called memories of the so called relationship hunt me. You might say 'search for the me that is hunted by memories'. I have no clue  ??? Have no clue ..

Jed McKenna

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #16 on: September 25, 2017, 11:26:59 am »
Can you just allow your self to be clueless...

Game Hint: Everyone else is.

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #17 on: September 26, 2017, 06:00:35 am »
If there is nothing left to do... no ego to Need to be fulfilled ... what am I here for?




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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #18 on: September 26, 2017, 06:13:04 am »
Do you require a reason?

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #19 on: September 26, 2017, 11:13:29 am »
Gosh of Course not. There appears to be a hell lot of growth potential and growth in the human adulthood human experience. Am I right or am I right? Bla.

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #20 on: September 26, 2017, 11:10:33 pm »
What is ''right'' and what is '''wrong''? This is no simple matter. Please find out and let me know.

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« Reply #21 on: September 27, 2017, 04:13:31 am »
There is no right or wrong -- there is being refined more and more and then seeing alignment more and more, having fewer filters so to speak.

H/A is more complex than I thought, too simple for the complex mind or too complex for the simple mind. I can figure it out though, or release or whatever, all is too quiet now, too quiet. Too beautiful. The American Sublime did talk about that, didnt they

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #22 on: September 27, 2017, 04:14:56 am »
No... there is wrong. At least in this experience, there is perceived wrong where the ego-me has to speak against something. But then that is right

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #23 on: September 27, 2017, 08:02:44 am »
This is not very adultish to say but I have some Problems with the me/me-rules Kind of Person. My rules for me, and my rules for you --

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« Reply #24 on: September 28, 2017, 01:53:32 am »
O.K. ... let me get this straight, you don't like their ''my rules for me, my rules for you'' attitude. This means that you have a set of rules that are different... not me/me.. however, you want others to be different, perhaps adopt your rules... your me/me rules that they shouldn't have me/me rules.

What I think is happening is that they are mirroring you rule set back to you and you are having challenges seeing your own rules... but I could be way wrong.

Sounds quite me-ish to me.

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #25 on: September 28, 2017, 02:24:45 am »
They mirror that I do not give  my character enough time to  make new rules, and make the rules I want .   And of course they Mirror my own arrogance . Also  I tend to remember circumstances where my body screamed and was full of stress in this relationship -- , but still I want to trust my body  if it says the person is good for you which it does from time to time . -  Which gets me to the point you made again :  why not a healthy happy relationship ?

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #26 on: September 29, 2017, 03:45:20 am »
I feel insane and my relationship attachment sickens me and there is no fun in it or in me and life :o Which gets me to the point --> I want to be sane, lose my relationship attachment and have fun

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #27 on: September 30, 2017, 04:24:15 am »
The most fun Thing to do for me in this world is to love others. Sounds like fun!

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #28 on: September 30, 2017, 07:48:24 am »
Is it indeed possible that in the midst of the worst drama there is laughter ? Whoops - This is for entertainment only ?

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Re: Enough of drama
« Reply #29 on: September 30, 2017, 08:39:24 am »
Is that true?

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