If you want to clean up your dream, get rid of the detritus and be a little (or a lot) happier, GET RID OF THE DRAMATIC DRIFTWOOD IN YOUR LIFE. Don't complain to me that it would hurt people, be painful, etc. I ain't buying it because you are already in pain. Where is the logic in taking care of everyone but you? (Please re-read).
Well... what prompted that response Jed? Crap, I don't know.
Love ya, Jed
P.S. Worry free, drama free, teflon like kinda guy. Try it, and I assure you, you will love it.