INVISIBLE GURU FORUM

Hi there:

So... who cares what your family thinks? I know that might come across as a little harsh, but it's an important question.. who the hell cares what they think? Are they particularly brilliant, wise, enlightened, happy, mature??? I'm sitting in serious doubt on that one.

Let me project for a minute... your family is rather immature, quite confused, not terribly happy, poorly adjusted to the world they live in... in short... miserable... and I am making an effort to be polite here. Are they not rather screwy? Is that true? Once again, I hallucinate that I am reasonably accurate, but hey, that's nothing compared to what you are hallucinating, i.e. that their opinions of you matter. Sheesh.... sounds like a waste of a life to me.

Love ya, Jed.

Yeh, my father pulled that b.s. on me when I was a long haired hippy. I agreed that seeing a shrink would be a good idea and that I would go if he would go... needless to say, that was the end of that story.

Love ya, Jed.

Consider your self forgiven Hugh.

Love ya, Jed.

Your friend and his/her experiences have nothing to do with you. Pain is almost always resisting. Stay with what is going on in our experience. Ignore others. Leave them to their experiences.

Love ya, Jed.

I don't understand. Please re-state.

Love ya, Jed.

1.) Maybe yes, maybe no, but there won't be anyone there to worry about it.
2.) Maybe yes, maybe no, and there will appear to be someone there to worry about it.
3.) Maybe yes, maybe no, but there won't be anyone there to worry about it. However, the more you are a Human Adult, the less time it will take. Which is why I encourage being a Human Adult.

Love ya, Jed.