Good question... and indicative of a sizable challenge. As you probably know, I strongly encourage H/A before T/R. Realizing that Truth Is, and is all that is, doesn't mean losing anything real. You can't lose what is real. You can certainly lose attachments, lies and delusions though. Your ''dear loved ones'' are being held by you as separate from you and then you make believe you love them. You can't love them because they are in fact you at the level of Truth. To love ''someone'' you must separate them out, make them not you. You are love at the core of your beingness... but that doesn't mean you ''love'' others. There are no others. That is just part of a profound and deeply held belief and one of the illusions of the human game.
This human dream thrives and drives on separation. There is a them and us, dems and pubs, male and female, gay and straight, black and white, citizens and immigrants, friends and enemies, and these are ALL made up when viewed from the level of Truth. And, that level is all that is real. There are no ''two'' of anything, only ''One'' and on is simply ONE. The fear you feel is because you don't know what love really is. You think it is your warm fuzzy feelings but have those ever changed to cold pricklies in the past... or perhaps will in the future. True love never changes as it is what is, and all that is.
I suggest that if you a afraid of losing your loved ones, you have no idea what real love is... you only think you do and thinking is definitely not loving. If this journey appears too much for you then don't fret about it. Let it be and live your life out as best you can. This journey takes courage while the human journey takes courage as well, one is a lie and ends in pain and the other is freedom at it's finest. Whatever you do, become an adult, grow up, and you will certainly have a better dream. Should T/R arise in your world it will then be much easier to live through that initial awakening and further.
T/R is pretty bizarre but only from the perspective of the insane world humans live in, and this dreamt world is perfect from my perspective, perfectly insane. In going sane you can expect much kick-back because few will understand what you are going through... but that's just the way this dream has been set up... Maya is very prevalent and very powerful.
My advice, relax, enjoy the movie, and Season Two is just around the corner. It's going to be a block buster. Entertaining beyond anything you could imagine.
Love ya, Jed.