A person came by my house and when they were leaving they commented that they had to go let someone else's fukcin' dog outside. Default response for me is to say something along the lines of "its not the dog's fault" but I didn't say anything. I would have been providing a little bit of resistance to it and I think the point would be to erect my own boundary. I'm thinking maybe the point of friends is a comfortable zone to work on your fences together. Maybe, maybe not, its all the same when I throw it into the machine.
I read something about 'it' not being pointless, but pointlessness, and that feels somewhat accurate. I take any context and grind it to mulch, if you think there's a point in the mulch I'll make mulch of that point.