INVISIBLE GURU FORUM

Realize there are no people to deal with. They are just images in a dream and you have attached concepts and evaluations to them.

Be kind, be a dic, who cares. Those are just b.s. concepts made up by your mind. Beside, there is no free will and no you to exercise it if it did exist.

I suggest you go way beyond your stories of shoulds and shouldn'ts. If something appears to be then it is, but only an appearance in a dream. Who are you to know that is better or worse, especially in this dream.

Love ya, Jed.

It's very possible to let go of relationships. Perhaps not overnight, it's dependent on the volume of importances you have attached to it, but it's much easier than you might think. The main challenge is no one has ever taught you how to do it. It's counter to the interest of Maya/ego and the human drama that they love and encourage. Learning how to do it takes some time and direction, but it is a powerful skill that is applicable in many facets of humanness. You don't have to suffer but you have to know what to do about it in order to make changes. I teach it in the Nav Series.

Love ya, Jed. 

Dear K;

STOP RIGHT THERE... you have no idea what is best for others, in reality, you probably don't even know what it best for you. How arrogant to think you can change people or make suggestions to make them better. SHUT UP. You have much growing and learning to do yourself without being concerned about others. You are just avoiding experience your own pain by focusing on ''improving'' others.

Of course, that is all b.s., but take it on if you feel it applies, and ignore it if you don't.  It's your experience that matters, just stop lying to yourself.

Love ya, Jed.

Think about this long and hard.

How can you introduce the concept/idea/ideal of awakening to others when you know not of what you speak? It would just be lying and deceiving, exactly what you want others to stop doing to you. You sound hypocritical and destined to fail, ergo, more suffering and grief for you.

Suck it up princess... you are not the first one in the world to have a lover go sideways on you, s h i t happens and in the human experience it can happen quite frequently. So what? Really so what? Did it kill you? Did it cut off a limb or cripple you... if it had, I would still say the same thing.. so what 

Despite my harsh tone, I love you and only want to communicate that there is a way of living (in this dream) that entails much, much less suffering, but you have to grow up... you have to really want it. I went to though all that angst you describe and got over it, in (permit me a little bragging if you will) remarkably/unusually short time. It was just a decision that there was no wrong, no guilty party, and everyone was doing the very best they could with the resources they had at hand. As time passes and experiences accumulate, one tends to acquire more resources. That's just the nature of the human experience.

Forgive everyone you have ever met, everyone you will every (conceivably) meet and, most of all, forgive yourself. Start small, very small.

Forgiving has nothing to do with making anyone right or wrong. No one is every right or wrong, there is no one who could ever be. Right or wrong is just an assignment of mind to enhance the sense of separation.

Everyone you meet, everyone you hate, everyone you love, is just a reflection of you.. pointing you back to your True Nature, however, it will only be seen as such if you have the courage to let it be so, now... go and do  it. NOW!

Love ya, Jed.

P.S. Thank you for the opportunity to rant.

For you there is one major/first step. Start forgiving... don't do it to get anything, do it because you want to release everything. Start small. It has nothing to do with the object or person you are forgiving. It's all about you, and who you think you are. When I suggest forgiving, I am mean forgiving everything, it's broad-spectrum forgiving. Every thought, every person who has appeared in your dream, absolutely everything possible.

It's a start, but a good one. Now go to it.

Love ya, Jed.

P.S. If there is someone you just can't forgive then forgive yourself for not being able to forgive them.

You are a long way from forgiving everything. Now go back to work on it.

If you think you have forgiven everything then forgive yourself for thinking that.

There is much in you that need releasing.

Love ya, Jed.

Read my post and do what I suggest... of don't.

Love ya, Jed.

I suggest you first of all decide that you are doing to forgive, absolutely everything. Then whatever arises, say to yourself. ''I forgive (you) or (it).

If you think you are doing it wrong, then forgive yourself for thinking you are doing it wrong. When I say forgive everything and everyone I mean JUST THAT.

Now, go do it.

Love ya, Jed.