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Jed McKenna

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #75 on: May 23, 2017, 12:47:08 am »
Whether or not human love and forgiveness are the same is a pretty extensive topic. Just too much to  deal with here.

Patience is next to the importance of forgiving. Just stick with it, I am confident you will see some relief in the near future.

And, never ask ''why'' again because there is no reason for anything. Everything just happens on it's own.

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #76 on: May 23, 2017, 10:39:08 am »
jed can you guide me through being a human adult or should i read through spirtual warfare and later comment where i'm stuck on being a human adult?

I'm stuck on whether i should be kind loving vs selfish or a dick

How does a human adult act? (a human adult that is beyond society condition norms)

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"I suggest you watch your behavior and ask yourself, ''Are my actions gentle, kind and loving?'' or ''Are my actions selfish, less than gentle, jealous and petty?'' That's just a broad brush stroke but covers that basics. "

"Realize there are no people to deal with. They are just images in a dream and you have attached concepts and evaluations to them.

Be kind, be a dic, who cares. Those are just b.s. concepts made up by your mind. Beside, there is no free will and no you to exercise it if it did exist.

I suggest you go way beyond your stories of shoulds and shouldn'ts. If something appears to be then it is, but only an appearance in a dream. Who are you to know that is better or worse, especially in this dream."
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #77 on: May 24, 2017, 12:43:26 am »
Tell me one specific thing that you need assistance with.

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #78 on: May 25, 2017, 11:28:42 am »
please guide me through the process of reaching human adulthood, i'm still reading your book on spirtual warfare in the mean while, thank you
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #79 on: May 25, 2017, 11:26:39 pm »
Short of doing the Nav Series I suggest you observe those around you as best you can. They are almost without exception 7 year olds  in adult bodies. Observer their behaviors, beliefs, etc, and then practice doing the opposite. Then you might want to watch yourself and also do the opposite. This is a gross simplification as there is much more just below the surface of ''żou'''. But it's a start.

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« Reply #80 on: May 31, 2017, 04:45:34 am »
how long does it take to become a human adult? can i be one within a month or 2? or does it take years? if the ego is an healthy open minded ego, i'd like to see myself as open to every possibility yet i'm closed to my own insecurities i have difficulty taming emotions just as any immature unconscious human
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #81 on: May 31, 2017, 04:58:23 am »
It can take minutes or a life time. You must be clear on your motivation, what is it that has you wanting H/A. If you just want to avoid pain the I suggest you increase you pain.... and then increase it further.

Most new age and pop-phsy books teach how to suppress it. Only a temporary bandage. Use that imagination, which is already making you miserable, and imagine even greater misery, and still greater misery. Now, I am not suggesting you hurt anyone here, other than yourself, and you have already hurt your self more than a lifetimes worth.

However, my words are meaningless... you need to experience your pain fully in order to grow up and become more adult.

There is nothing wrong with you (or her) it's just that you are living a rather miserable existence and it's all in your head.

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« Reply #82 on: June 01, 2017, 06:15:03 am »
what else besides amplifying pain? do i need to have a look out at other aspects? and what usually does happen will i just stop and see it as meaningless overtime? I'm just guessing..

I feel like i've had enough pain and i want change all of a sudden or rather i feel less pain because i just see it as ridiculous right now. And i want to just be more ego like and take care of myself instead of over caring about others, Am i on the right path? i'm being selfish and i kind of like it, i've always been an ass kisser for a long time, not a perfect ass kisser but i do genuinely care more about others than myself which has costed me a lot more than it's worth, but then again what am i worth? am i backsliding?

i feel like i'm not even ready with my inner peace before i try and help out any, maybe someday when i find my inner peace i'll try to give back to the universe, well it's not like i will be a completely selfish ego, i just see myself being selfish and selfless with moderation may be healthy
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #83 on: June 02, 2017, 08:08:45 am »
In my experience, the only really healthy thing might do in this dream is to realize that it is a dream and you are a dreamed character.

WAKE UP!

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #84 on: June 02, 2017, 09:06:49 am »
when i try to wake up, i just see the current life problems still keep existing in the dream, i get even more annoyed of not having any power to control the dream but rather the dream rides me into **** that i don't want jed, i want freedom i can't get it without dreamy hard work which is painful
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #85 on: June 02, 2017, 11:34:18 am »
If you aren't willing to do the work, no matter what it takes, then it's not for you. You aren't hurting enough to make the sacrifices need to really go ''free''.

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #86 on: June 03, 2017, 09:58:37 am »
alright jed, apparently there are not many magical shortcuts in life to achieve more illusions

i'm still seeking human adulthood, which books would you recommend me to read?

i've done spiritual enlightenment the damnedest thing and theory of everything i think (can't remember)

I heard spiritual warfare from a friend that it does point on how to achieve human adulthood, what about spiritually incorrect enlightenment ? dreamstate ? jed talks?

should i go through them all or should i skip spiritually incorrect enlightenment?
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #87 on: June 03, 2017, 10:52:29 am »
I suggest you read your posts and my responses over and over and over and over....

After a few hundred times let me know what you have learned. If you haven't learned anything then go back and read your post and my responses another couple of hundred times.

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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #88 on: June 03, 2017, 03:49:56 pm »
i've read through our post once

i've learned :

letting go, being present, stop trying to recreate an old experience feel, forgiving everything, stop trying to control people, paitence i need to learn proper patience, i'm not as important as i think i am, i have a lot of nonsensical stories that i believe in

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give me a week or 2 to go through them a hundred times, i've just noticed that i have really bad memory recall as i read through, i don't even remember typing any of that.. it's kind of sad.. that's how bad my brain fog is : (.. i really need more sleep i wish i had better health and no tinnitus, i wish i could sleep normally it feels terrible..

jed thank you for everything so far you've been wonderful to me and everyone else

love ya, ( I also noticed i stopped appreciating you half away i took you for granted as you were nice to me, did i just create another thought/story?)
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Re: Why is life unfair?
« Reply #89 on: June 04, 2017, 02:07:52 am »
Can you create anything other than a thought or story? You certainly can't create Truth.

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