Dear Members and lurkers:
The reason you are reading this is most likely two fold, 1.) you aren't T/R and 2.) you have experienced wanting revenge in the past. Well... nothing wrong with either of those. So, let us start at this human dream level as revenge has nothing to do with T/R.
Pretty much everyone has felt they have been wronged at some time.. It might be the gov't, courts, some guy in the bar, a girl friend who stole your lover, an ''X'', blah, blah, blah. If you deny something like this has happened then I'm calling b.s. on you. BUT, there is an amazing way to gain revenge, to get your retribution... and it turns these kinds of events and feelings into a blessing. Here is the secret... but just a heads up, this works, it is deadly effective and (counter-intuitively) it can point one towards T/R.
So, dada... here we go.
Get even and not in a half-assed way... BY BECOMING DELIRIOUSLY HAPPY!
Now, some folks are going to say that's ridiculous, that they could never forgive so-and-so for such-and-such. Well, that would suggest to me that you don't really want revenge, you just want to sit and stew in your self-righteousness.... and the other's self-wrongedness. I am providing a remarkably effective method for those of you who are ready to step out of your morbid state.
In my experience, revenge is a high octane fuel that pumps up Adrenalin much better than Starbucks. However, it also burns out the human system if maintained for any length of time. Sure, you will feel alive for a time, but it's pretty shallow and damaging.
On the other hand, my proposed and (in the long ago past) practiced solution is not only very effective but, quite probably, will result in an increased life span.
If you want to be deliriously happy, I suggest you go back and read my past rants. I have laid out a bit of a map which, if followed, will lead to considerable happiness and freedom... hm...deliriously, well that might take considerable work, but let me ask you this, would it not be a worthwhile subject of study? Would even a little happiness delirium be of interest?
In the alternative, you can sit and stew and take your cancer inducing self-righteous rage to the grave, and you will end up right, dead right.
My question to you is what small wrong could you let go of right now. It doesn't have to be big, just start small with some little slight. Let me know how it goes.
Love ya, Jed.
P.S. Don't be surprised if the other party get's really pissed off at you in your delirium... good thing that's none of your business.