Could it be that the holding on to is all that's in your way.
The most important.
I remember several of my deaths from earlier incarnations.
There were natural exits, there was a guillotine and there was a stupid death in battle. (We were about 20 almost unarmed against hundreds of well-armed warriors.)
I'm not afraid of death. (Although the instinct of self-preservation at this point is very strong. It is natural.)
What I really feared even in this incarnation is to lose myself.
Once I was afraid to take this last step and the next opportunity appeared only after several centuries. (I wrote about this before.)
Now I understand that my ego was afraid.
Jed, you said that the one who falls off the cliff does not need a map.
Exactly right.
Total surrender.
My blessings to those who will dare to take this step from the "cliff".
My blessings...