Dear Jed, this is JulianG according to:
FRIEND1(old one): Noble, humble, good friend and loyal. Open minded, you changed a lot because you were very closed and resentful in the past. Overprotective of your loved ones. Now you seem opened for new discoveries.
FRIEND2(new one): Very intelligent, has good memory, respectful, responsible, you’re a cold person, hard-hearted, undemonstrative and do not mind small details.
WIFE: special, creative, smart and honest. Loving (when you want to), respectful, responsible. A little unsure of himself and that doesn`t allow you to take risks most of times. There is unconscious inner anger for what you want to have but have not. You’re always searching for new things and wanting to be a better person.
SISTER IN LAW: decided, serious, good friend, good adviser, egocentric, joker, faithful, educated, sensitive. You were a sour person before but not now as you have changed.
I tried my best to find a good match in English for the Spanish words and concepts. Also asked all of them to be as honest as possible........
Quite an interesting experience.... "I" wear a different mask with every different person and at the same time they were wearing their own masks while talking or writing to "me" all of the above descriptions. Also I felt resistance and some anxiety towards what they would say or write to me. Now I don't care that much........ flaws? skills? traits? weaknesses? coming from changing masks??....."you're changing"?? changing masks??