Author Topic: Jed Rant: More about ''Love ya''.  (Read 2138 times)

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Re: Jed Rant: More about ''Love ya''.
« Reply #30 on: May 26, 2017, 08:57:37 pm »
I tried this with the first person I tried to love. The relationship didn't last because the feeling was not mutual. I have a lot of 'if only's' and 'what if's' concerning this person and our relationship, but after doing this I feel so foolish. I thought I truly loved this person but what kind of love says I'll only truly love you if you love me? Now I see that I was asking of them what I couldn't give them first. Now I just want to apologize to them. But I have a question: whenever I stop practicing unconditionally loving them the 'what if's' and 'if only's' creep back in, even though I see them now. I'm getting better at not allowing them so much influence but how do I stop? Does one keep loving unconditionally untill it becomes their natural disposition?