This is my take.
a question, assertation, declaration and promise.
I dont really get much the difference between assertation and declaration other that maybe the declaration is written, thanks to the utter uselsessness of knowledge on internet when you try to get to the bottom of stuff.
I see it as a relation/ratio, distances marked in relation between ME and YOU.
Question is belittling ME and placing more gravity on YOU , but maybe in a trap kind of way, like ill use it for my narrative, cause.
"Are we alone?"
Assertation has mostly ME and just a little bit of you, to make me seem empathic , like im talking to you but mostly im talking to hear myself speak.
"I am having trouble finding a job." / "I kicked ass at training today."
Declaration is like a cutting of the link between ME and YOU, its like i know this on my own, i dont need even an inkling of your approval.
"Im getting a job."
ANd a promise would be at least trying to get 50 50 me and you into the picture, but maybe really 70 30 or 80 20 since its ME promising YOU, so its like trying to get you to see youreself in an equality with me; asserting something that i assert will have continuity.
"I will love your forever and ever."