Not much surprise in this, but I would take the opposite position.
What the most important things to a two year old.... to say, ''NO'' to darn near everything. He/she is beginning to construct an ego.
If you could say ''yes'' to everything, certainly not an easy task, you will find ego begins to diminish. Something I would suggest you try. Even say yes to ego... it only wants your love anyways.
Love ya, Jed.