According to M Scott Peck, it is because of their unwillingness to ‘stretch’ themselves (due to laziness) that causes this familiar phenomena (impeding others personal and spiritual freedom) in families. I inputted some data into my husband the other night with an outcome quite similar to the time I inputted a problem into (punched the right buttons on) my dad’s old adding machine, which caused it to keep chugging away. It wouldn’t stop; it was in an endless loop, so I finally just unplugged it. Harder to unplug a husband, but somehow I managed. I reverted back to my familiar “undo, undo, undo” motif. What is wrong with me? I must stop inputting data. This bad habit of mine is very hard to break. It appears that all the machines around me are quite overdue for a software upgrade.