I would argue carefully that i went through steps 1 to 3 quite fast. When i started questioning everything about 20 years ago, it was like an avalanche. Unstoppable.
Now it feels like i stuck at step 4 for at least 10 to 15 years. There were always moments of just playing my role (education, work, relationships, dreams of the future...) BUT, there was always the feeling of...got infected with something. This little voice and feeling that this isnt as it seems to be. Maybe a bit of uncomfortable.
But...it was always about more knowledge. Maybe this teacher will enlighten me. Im sure THAT book will bring me clarity and therefore end this endless search.
Always this searching and searching. Sometimes i feel very tired of searching, of trying to find...this. Its curious, because i 'know' pretty much and heard SO MANY things that this cant be found, has never left and so on. AND STILL, this me here kept searching. Its ridiculous.
Would you compare step 5, the realization, with just...witnessing of what is? Just seeing, feeling, tasting...being aware of 'this', of whatever is happening or not.
Because...there is never something else than this. Not matter what this is or isnt, it is what it is. There is no knowledge about the past, maybe memories but thats just an idea. Theres no knowledge about the future, its obvious. There is just this...i wouldnt call it a moment. I wouldnt call it 'my surroundings'...its whatever happens in front of the camera, with no camera back there.